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Empty Nest: We’re all terminal

By BY CURT SWARM 3 min read

Diana Newquist Parson, of Ottumwa, has terminal liver cancer. "We’re all terminal," she says. Diana, a writer, interviewed numerous women who were suffering from illness, grief or some other tragedy, converted their stories into free verse, and published them in her book "Dusty Women" (from "Ashes to Ashes… Dust to Dust…") "Mary" is a poem from the book. I selected it because I too have driven that same route to the Mayo Clinic and had similar feelings. "Dusty Women" can be found on Amazon along with Diana’s other books.

Mary

by Diana Newquist Parson

Scenes we count on the way

To Mayo Clinic…

To pass the time,

To count the miles,

To reflect.

Little unpainted house

With old appliances on the porch

And in the yard…

And a light always burning at the door.

Three houses in a row

With yellow siding and green roofs

The tiny town with

The elegant buildings.

The house that is painted black…

All Black

With only shiny windows

Proving it is a house.

The house that looks strangely awkward

As if the roof could at any moment tip and fall.

The corn field with precisely placed rows

That looks as if

Grant Wood must have been there.

The tangled woods along

Wet lands.

Cemeteries:

Sixteen… yes, the actual name.

St. Pauls.

Alcock.

Springfield.

The one with infinite rows of peonies.

The one with old stones

That look like medieval domes.

The sign for the Little Brown Church

In Nashua.

The Catholic church

With rows of bleachers

Facing the highway.

The gas station where we

Use the bathroom…

And the gas station where we will never

Use the bathroom.

Two large bridges…

But only one crosses the Cedar River.

The turn we always miss

And the place we always turn around.

The Grout Museum

Which does not contain grout.

A myriad of small streams

With animal names:

Fox.

North Skunk. South Skunk.

Turkey.

Bear.

The last town in the state.

And the "Welcome to Minnesota" sign.

Milestones.

Landmarks.

We count them off,

Call them by name

To create some sort of order,

Some sort of familiarity,

Some sort of sense and anchor

To this cancer journey,

Trekking to Mayo Clinic.

I become part of each.

Sometimes the black house.

Sometimes just fitting in,

Conforming

Like one of the yellow houses.

Today I am the awkward house,

They tried.

And it had a purpose,

But the sense

of teetering

And listing

And ready to fall…

Today that is me.

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Have a good story? Call or text Curt Swarm in Mt. Pleasant at 319-217-0526 or email him at curtswarm@yahoo.com. Curt is available for public speaking.

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