It has taken me a while to get the courage to respond to the July 15 TR article about the LGBT 13th Street Event. Questioning or opposing anything to do with LGBT takes one through a minefield of deep emotions which in the past has most likely erupted with the outsider being targeted for destruction or at the very least called derogatory names. I was raised by parents who were very sensitive to the emotions of other people. People were to be loved and respected and I have tried to follow that practice all my life. I expect to be treated likewise. This is still a free country and I have a concern.

Does this community really want to be known for an annual LGBT event? I know from close personal experiences that this is not a light hearted subject to be celebrated like it was just a lark. I know families where a child or an adult has said they are of a different sexual orientation and the pain that CAN go with it. I do not want to add to that pain but I find such a party atmosphere and celebration to be quite insensitive. Why should a private matter be made public?

I have treated people who have been identified as LGBT with love and respect, even though we see the situation differently. But making it a public celebration is not appropriate and certainly not for using taxpayer funds.

Transgender is complicated and closely associated with mental illness. I have seen children becoming confused when sharing space and activities with a transgender person. Bathrooms have become an area of concern. Why are we exposing little children to “sexual identities” when they are not developmentally ready to handle it? Have your drag queen events at the bar or other adult functions but do not expose children. It is insensitive and could be harmful.

The United Way director was quoted as saying this was a family event. Really? No wonder we are having problems with depression and suicide with our young people when adults are acting so irresponsible. This is not something to be laughed about.

To remain silent means to be acquiescent. I don’t support the LGBT event and I guess I won’t support United Way any longer either. But I am open to discussion, should anyone like to do so. I’ll even buy the coffee.